tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13726206.post1878410282173406116..comments2024-03-25T00:14:16.124-07:00Comments on Bread and Bread: how do animals experience time, am I still married, and other kind of important questionsCherylhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554329549665664616noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13726206.post-52183840625695483502010-09-03T15:41:04.265-07:002010-09-03T15:41:04.265-07:00all my love, good thoughts and prayers are going t...all my love, good thoughts and prayers are going to you and T-Mec. <br /><br />and the State of CA can piss off! Iowans do it better. ha!Jesihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11756949403005593547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13726206.post-27077543160221745402010-08-16T19:05:49.363-07:002010-08-16T19:05:49.363-07:00C: Thanks for the kind words. The National Center ...C: Thanks for the kind words. The National Center for Lesbian Rights is putting out FAQ sheets as fast as they can to answer questions just like these, but it's hard to keep up with the law these days.<br /><br />E: Thanks for the T-Mec reassurance. And I would not be at all surprised if Arnold was hoping to fill some potholes with a few gay bucks.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07554329549665664616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13726206.post-33840958336038125222010-08-16T11:54:45.480-07:002010-08-16T11:54:45.480-07:00Sorry to hear about T-Mec's prognosis. Poor ki...Sorry to hear about T-Mec's prognosis. Poor kitty. I think you have your head on your shoulders about your decision to let him live the rest of life out as is. I've had a couple friends who've opted for cat chemo and it's extremely rough on the cat, the owners, and the bank account.<br /><br />I agree that California should auto-recognize your marriage and anyone else who went other places to get married. I call bullshit on having to pay more fees. But does that make gay marriage Arnold's budget-balancing plan? Like Payless, he's making up for slower than normal summer sales?Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13909823139048583963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13726206.post-48107207216046291092010-08-14T12:23:16.300-07:002010-08-14T12:23:16.300-07:00I'm sorry there isn't better news for T-Me...I'm sorry there isn't better news for T-Mec's prognosis. I think you're doing the right thing too. When you talk to the kitty oncologist, try to remember what's your stuff and what's her stuff. Sounds like you have a good sense of it from what you wrote. She may hurl judgments at you, but you are not beholden to pick them up, nor do you deserve them. Just no simple choices here.<br /><br />As for marriage, my first thought was, "You're already married." It's still confusing though. Sigh. I've occasionally wondered if the legal marriages of gay couples in the US get recognized abroad since they aren't recognized nationwide here. <br /><br />Best to you all, CClairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06168243108016358137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13726206.post-69591638330748282382010-08-14T10:14:39.790-07:002010-08-14T10:14:39.790-07:00Tiki, huh? I'll check it out. Team Gato does s...Tiki, huh? I'll check it out. Team Gato does sometimes prefer food that doesn't look like food. I think it's because I'm a vegetarian, so they've never had real-meat table scraps. AK gave them some bacon recently and they just licked it. <br /><br />Thanks so much for your support. It means a lot.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07554329549665664616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13726206.post-17596419036494406922010-08-13T19:26:21.908-07:002010-08-13T19:26:21.908-07:00Try giving T-Mec Tiki Cat catfood. That shit is hu...Try giving T-Mec Tiki Cat catfood. That shit is human grade seafood. Most cats love it, especially the crab surimi. And it would be good to keep up strength and tempt the appetite.<br /><br />Except my cats, who prefer it when their food does not look like food. And those fuckers still eat better than I do. *sigh*<br /><br />If it helps, I think you are doing the right thing. Love you all.Tracy Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05310783668282179929noreply@blogger.com